You Say More Than You Think

You Say More Than You Think

The 7-day Plan for Using the New Body Language to Get What You Want

eBook - 2010
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Do you want to be bulletproof at work, secure in your relationship, and content in your own skin? If so, it's more important than ever to be aware of what your body is saying to the outside world. Unfortunately, most of what you've heard from other body language experts is wrong, and, as a result, your actions may be hurting, not helping, you.
With sass and a keen eye, media favorite Janine Driver teaches you the skills she used every day to stay alive during her fifteen years as a body-language expert at the ATF. Janine's 7-day plan and her 7-second solutions teach you dozens of body language fixes to turn any interpersonal situation to your advantage. She reveals methods here that other experts refuse to share with the public, and she debunks major myths other experts swear are fact:nbsp;

Giving more eye contact is key when you're trying to impress someone. Not necessarily true. It's actually more important where you point your belly button . This small body shift communicates true interest more powerfully than constant eye contact.

The "steeple" hand gesture will give you the upper hand during negotiations and business meetings. Wrong. Driver has seen this overbearing gesture backfire more often than not. Instead, she suggests two new steeples that give you power without making you seem overly aggressive: the Basketball Steeple and the A-OK Two-Fingered Steeple.

Happy people command power and attention by smiling just before they meet new people. Studies have shown that people who do this are viewed as Beta Leaders. Alpha leaders smile once they shake your hand and hear your name.nbsp;
At a time when every advantage counts--and first impressions matter more than ever--this is the book to help you really get your message across.

From the Hardcover edition.
Publisher: New York : Crown Publishers, c2010
Edition: 1st ed
ISBN: 9780307453990
Characteristics: 1 online resource (viii, 229 p.) : ill
Additional Contributors: Aalst, Mariska van


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Dec 11, 2016

Is fairly up-to-date with modern cues, so I did learn something new. It is also an entertaining read. I've renewed it 3 times... what else to say!

Aug 09, 2016

I enjoyed this book as Im known as someone who can read peoples minds. The Book thought me that, yes I might be good at that, but I also should Master body language, and be confident if I want they to happen. It will help me in High school :)


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Aug 09, 2016

It's a book about how body language can Change us and a little boost in confidence can make a difference. It has daily challanges and will teach you the New body language in a Week. It also talks about Why the New body language is Better Than the old body language.


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Aug 18, 2016

"Fake it till you make it"


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